It’s not fair.. and it’s super annoying. I’m sorry my husbands job is the army, i’m sorry i got pregnant RIGHT before we moved to Colordao and its a 25 hour drive home for an expensive plane ride, rather then the 3 1/2 hour drive it was to MD when we were stationed in VA, i’m sorry you feel like it’s OUR fault that the army decided to turn fort lee into a base for military schooling, and that they were getting rid of all the units causing them to station us somewhere else, i’m sorry you won’t be able to babysit and see your grandson as much as i saw mom-mom, dad-dad, poppy,pop-pop & noani.SORRY I’M NOT SORRY.
It could be worse! we could have gotten stationed in Germany, Italy, Hawaii or Japan, and then you wouldn’t have been able to see him for 4 years rather then every 6 months or so..whenever we can afford to go back. I am so sick of my mom commenting on my shit when i complain about how i don’t like Colorado weather & how i’m over it, she is always like “good, come home so we can babysit” ..like..NO. STFU i understand you wanna see your grandson and that you’ll be missing out on seeing him a lot, but this is the life WE chose, this is MY family now and I’m sick of feeling like i should feel guilty about my husbands job. If we lived in Salisbury and didn’t have the army, we wouldn’t have half the shit we have now and we would be miserable and struggling.. so no, i will not feel bad that you can’t see your grandson as much as you would like to because we have to make a living and that just so happens to mean living half way across the US.